Sunday, July 31, 2016

Sunday Schoolisms Plus: #20: How to be Merciful



I have been enjoying the book Lord, Only You Can Change Me, by Kay Arthur. It is a study of the Sermon on the Mount and Beatitudes. Kay points out that the first four beatitudes deal with our relationship with God and the last four beatitudes deal with our relationship with people. One of those "people beatitudes" is 'Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.'

Here is what Kay Arthur says about being merciful:

"Now let me share with you four practical ways that you can show mercy. To neglect any one of them is to fail to be merciful."

1. When you see a person in need and you can meet his needs, do so. (See James 2: 15-16)

2. Fully forgive anyone who is indebted to you in his behavior or attitude. (See Colossians 3; 12-15)

3. If you are going to be merciful, then you need to give understanding rather than judgment. Ask yourself, "Have I sat where they are living?" (See Ezekiel 3:15 and Luke 6:36-38)

4. Be merciful to the character of others. We all have different personalities, different temperament types. Therefore, you need to be merciful and respond to others in the light of their personality needs.

          Some people need assurance. Give them assurance.
          Some people are insecure. Affirm them.
          Some people are weak. Support them.
          Some people are timid. Encourage them.
          Some people are reserved. Spur them on to love and good works.
             (see 1 Thessalonians 5: 14-15 and Hebrews 10:24)


Friday, July 29, 2016

Seed Science in the Garden

Well, the spring and summer gardening season is coming to an end. Many plants have run their course and many gardeners have too! But before retreating into our air conditioning for the month of August and leaving our gardens to fend for themselves there is one last job to be done- seed gathering. It is in the process of seed gathering that the gardener becomes a scientist, actually several scientists. Let me explain…

First the gardener thinks like a geologist.  When determining the age of rocks, geologists use radiocarbon dating. During this process a relationship between parent material and daughter material is established.   As gardeners we can think of this year’s garden as our parent material and the seeds we gather as our daughter material that will grow in to next year’s garden.

When choosing which seeds to gather, the gardener becomes a geneticist selecting seeds from the best flowers and vegetables in the garden – the biggest zinnias, the tastiest tomatoes, and perhaps only the pink cleomes. This is a chance to “weed out” the plants with unfavorable characteristics, and choose the color, size, taste, and hardiness of the plants you prefer in your “daughter garden” next year.  Saving seeds that have done well in your garden will produce plants that are better adapted to your specific growing conditions thus producing better results.

Now it’s time to become a botanist by understanding the difference between open-pollinated seeds, heritage seeds, and hybrid seeds.  The following definitions come from Seed Savers Exchange:

                “Open-pollination is when pollination occurs by insect, bird, wind, humans, or other natural mechanisms.”

                “An heirloom variety is a plant that has a history of being passed down within a family or community, similar to the generational sharing of heirloom jewelry or furniture.”

                “Hybridization is a controlled method of pollination in which the pollen of two different species or varieties is crossed by human intervention.”

The seeds of open-pollinated and heirloom plants are best for saving. The new plants grown from these seeds will remain “true-to-type” each year with only random variations. Seeds from hybrid plants will not grow “true-to-type”. If you want to grow a special hybrid variety, you will need to purchase seeds for that plant each growing season.

Once you have gotten comfortable wearing all of your scientists’ hats, it is time to get down to the details of seed-saving.

What: Some of the easiest flower seeds to harvest are poppy, morning glory, marigold, cleome, columbine, and larkspur. Easiest vegetable seeds include beans, peppers, cucumbers, and squash.

When:  This depends on whether you will be gathering wet seeds or dry seeds. Most flower seeds are gathered dry from seedpods or seed heads. Let the pods or heads turn brown and dry out before harvesting, but don’t wait too long or your seeds will fall to the ground in what is called self-sowing. Do not harvest flower seeds in the morning when they may still be moist; harvest in the heat of the day. Vegetable seeds are harvested when the vegetable is very ripe.

How:  Flower seeds need to dry for at least one week and are best stored in paper bags or envelopes that will not trap moisture. Then the labeled paper containers should be stored in a cool dark place.  For long term storage, place dried seeds in airtight containers in the refrigerator. Vegetable seeds that are harvested wet may need to be placed in water and allowed to ferment for a few days. During this process, bad seeds will float to the top and good seeds will sink to the bottom. The good seeds are removed and allowed to dry completely before storing.  More detailed instructions for seed harvesting, storage, and fermentation can be found at www.howtosaveseeds.com and www.gardeningknowhow.com

Why: I suppose the most practical reason for saving seeds is cost. A package of poppy seeds can cost as much as $5.00 when one seedpod contains zillions of free poppy seeds! Also sharing and swapping seeds is a time-honored gardening tradition. But for many gardeners, saving seeds is just another way to become further integrated into the life cycle of the gardens they love.


Wednesday, July 27, 2016

Derelict Blogger

It's true; I have been a derelict blogger. I have let summer's laziness seep into every aspect of my life, and honestly.... I've loved it!!

One of our annual summer events is our "sister week". This year we took our time together on tour. We started in Ruston where we slowed the pace for our city-dwelling family members from Dallas by shucking corn and shelling peas under the fan on the porch.


 The kids played with the chickens, harvested veggies from the garden, and hung their Eno hammocks out in the trees.  Later, James took them riding in one of his old convertibles. (When they got home and were putting the top up, James told them to roll the windows up. After bewilderedly looking around, they asked, "How?" After a quick lesson, they decided actually cranking a window handle was "awesome"!) Dusky dark brought out fireflies and bats followed by a vacation opening- ceremony fireworks display.

The next morning we headed for my sister, Carole's  house in Mobile where we further slowed our pace with a morning at the beach.   At Dauphine Island we walked the bird sanctuary where we fed turtles and fish, which brought out a curious alligator. Then we headed over to the estuarium for sting ray petting and seahorse gawking. 



That evening we took a fantastic tour of Mobile Harbor. The kids enjoyed being on the boat and the adults enjoyed all the interesting facts and trivia we learned. Everyone enjoyed the dolphins that sporadically played around the boat.

The USS Alabama,that the boys visited earlier in the day, viewed from the water.

A derelict ship used by the Coast Guard for training exercises.

So interesting to see a close-up view of a ship in dry dock.

A new boat designed for fighting groups like Somali pirates.


Then it was on to New Orleans were the main tourist attraction was.....

OLIVE!!!!!

Besides babysitting, we visited Mardi Gras World. Now we've gone to New Orleans a zillion time, but never visited this tourist attraction because it is...well, a tourist attraction. But for the benefit of our younger family members and their friends who had never been to Mardi Gras, we decided this might be fun, and IT WAS!!!

The video that explains Mardi Gras really did a great job, and the kids enjoyed sampling king cake. The tour allows you to see behind the scenes where artists are constructing components for this year's floats. The floats themselves were so impressive and our tour guide's interesting Mardi Gras trivia was pretty cool. And yes, having totally gotten into a touristy frame of mind, we did dress up like fools!


While in NOLA our dad took his first Uber, and we all took our first pedicabs. 


We spend our last night sharing a wonderful dinner at Katie's in Mid-City. They serve the most delicious charbroiled oysters without the loud, crowded, touristy enviroment of the Quarter.

The kids were sitting at their own table behind us.
Thanks, Katherine, for taking the picture!!

 Early the next morning we bid farewell to New Orleans by riding the street car down to Cafe du Monde for beignets. 

Then it was time to head out to our favorite place on earth- Mom and Dad's back porch in Many. While the women folk sat on the porch enjoying cool glasses of wine, Dad monitored the kids' target shooting. The holiday ended with a much anticipated Blizzard-run to Dairy Queen followed by closing-ceremony fireworks.

We loved taking our sisters' week on tour this summer. Moving from place to place and sampling what each of our homes had to offer was lots of fun.  But as always, it was really just about being together!!

                                                                  Love ya'll,
                                                                     Shelli



Oh, why can't we break away from all this, just you and I, and lodge with my fleas in the hills? I mean, flee to my lodge in the hills.
 ~S.J. Perelman, Will B. Johnstone, and Arthur Sheekman, Monkey Business

Sunday, July 24, 2016

Sunday Schoolisms Plus #19: Grace, Mercy and, Peace


Grace, mercy, and peace be unto you.

"Grace is that unearned favor which saves us.
 Mercy is that undeserved favor which forgives us.
 And peace is that unsought favor which reconciles us."

Kay Arthur
in 
Lord, Only You can Change Me


Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Sweet Summer!

Oh, the joys of summer....
 fresh vegetables, cool mornings, lazy attitudes, and family get-togethers.

It has been fun this summer to add eggs to the daily harvest.

Putting up squash and making pickles.

Fresh flowers are as much a part of the morning's harvest as the veggies.

But here is the best part of this summer.....
Olive!!

Olive and her friend, Ant.

Olive and her friend, Clovis.

Olive and her friend, Tom.

Olive and her friend, the kiddie pool.



Love ya'll,
Shelli

In winter I get up at night
And dress by yellow candle-light.
In summer quite the other way
I have to go to bed by day.
~Robert Louis Stevenson

A perfect summer day is when the sun is shining, the breeze is blowing, the birds are singing, and the lawn mower is broken. ~James Dent

Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under the trees on a summer’s day, listening to the murmur of water, or watching the clouds float across the blue sky, is by no means waste of time. ~John Lubbock

Summer afternoon—summer afternoon; to me those have always been the two most beautiful words in the English language. ~Henry James